Rose’s story

“Growing up in Kenya wasn’t easy. I had a difficult childhood, my parents were in an unhappy marriage, and it was an unhappy household.  

I knew that I was a lesbian, but I couldn’t tell anyone. I was too scared. There is a lot of discrimination in Kenya, people are often disowned by their families and loved ones. Sometimes people are even forced into marriage or having children. It doesn’t matter if they do not want to. It can be a really bad situation. 

I felt trapped. I couldn’t be myself; I couldn’t be open or free. I left and came to the UK seeking safety.  

After I arrived and felt safer, I told my parents that I am a lesbian. They were angry and ashamed. They disowned me and don’t speak to me anymore. I haven’t talked to them in a very long time.  

Seeking safety in the UK isn’t easy. The Home Office didn’t believe that I am lesbian. They asked me to prove my identity and to show evidence. How can I prove who I am? Being a lesbian is just part of me. 

I joined Rainbow Sisters over a year ago.  

Rainbow Sisters accept you even when you have been rejected by so many people. They are the ones who welcomed me.  

At Rainbow Sisters, I can talk about everything and anything. I can be myself. I learn about my rights and about the system in the UK.  

They gave me hope. No matter what is happening in my life, they are always so supportive. They are always there.  

I finally feel like I have a home again. 

Hopefully, when I get my status, I can start my life again. 

I can get a job. 

I can get married! 

I can live my life just like anybody else. 

I will be free!” 

The UK asylum system causes huge harm to LGBTQ+ women like Rose. In Rainbow Sisters, women can connect, find community, and support each other through the gruelling process. And you can make a difference too! 

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