For many of our Rainbow Sisters, their journeys to safety began with a difficult decision: to leave home behind.  

Many have fled countries where same-sex relationships are criminalised and punishable by prison sentences, alongside harsh societal discrimination and persecution. Only to be met with disbelief and uncertainty when they arrive in the UK in search of safety. 

One of those women is Uariumue, a member of our Rainbow Sisters from Namibia who shared her experiences to mark International Lesbian Day 2025.  

In Namibia, being part of the LGBTQ+ community is extremely difficult with harassment, discrimination and hate crimes common. Just last year, same-sex marriage was effectively banned. Uariumue shared:  

“You’re not allowed to be yourself. People are not open about their sexuality because they’re worried about discrimination, being disowned by their families and how other people see them.” 

Uariumue had to make the difficult choice to leave her home and to seek safety in the UK. 

In November of last year, a friend introduced Uariumue to Rainbow Sisters, our solidarity group for LGBTQ+ women seeking safety in the UK. It was here that she began to rebuild her confidence and sense of belonging: 

 “When I met other Rainbow Sisters, I started to realise I am not the only one, I am not wrong for trying to be myself. I made lots of friends, from all over the world. I met a best friend; we go for coffee and walks together. We look for other LGBTQ+ activities together. Rainbow Sisters is a place where I made good friendships.” 

For the first time, she felt she could be open, accepted, supported, and surrounded by women who understood her journey. 

This summer marked a milestone for Uariumue: her first time attending a Pride event. 

“I did not expect it would be so big! I was shocked, is this really happening? It was like shocking but also so happy. Seeing so many people who are LGBTQ+ and who are proud of themselves. I was so excited. It was a very, very good experience. I can’t wait to do it again!” 

The joy and pride she felt that day were reminders of the freedom and acceptance she had long hoped for. 

While Uariumue is still waiting for a decision on her asylum application, she remains hopeful about her future in the UK. 

“The UK is a very good country; it respects human rights. I want to be open and accepted as I am. To have a partner. To look forward to my future.” 

For her, safety and acceptance mean being able to live openly without fear. 

“I feel so much relief – when you’re in the closet, you think you’re not normal or you did something wrong, or like you’re cursed. Being around people who understand you and accept you, it’s like a big weight off your back. I don’t need to hide myself or to be afraid.” 

For women like Uariumue, Rainbow Sisters is not just a group, it’s a community, a family, and a safe home. 

“Rainbow Sisters means a lot to me. They are always here for you whatever you are experiencing. It is special.” 

As we mark International Lesbian Day, Uariumue shares a message of courage and pride for the LGBTQ+ community around the world: 

“Being with others gives you the power and encouragement to stand up and be open and to celebrate who you are. Accept yourself, do not hide yourself because of what people think or do. At the end of the day, it is YOU. Be proud of yourself!” 

Huge thank you to Uariumue for sharing her experiences to mark International Lesbian Day 2025!