Wonder Woman, by Memory

How can I truly find a sense of home within myself and embrace my authenticity? How can I feel free and completely comfortable in my own skin? I long for that deep connection with my own being, where I can be confident and content with who I am. This outfit or head wraps I’m wearing – whether it’s the fabric, the style, or how it reflects my personality – grounds me and helps me feel a sense of belonging to my community. It serves as a bridge between myself and the world around me.

However, despite how much I value this outfit and head wraps, I am frustrated. The weather doesn’t always cooperate, it adds another layer of complexity. It prevents me from fully expressing myself the way I’d like to. I want to feel at ease in my outfit, to wear it with confidence, but the chill in the air or sudden temperature shifts make that difficult. It forces me to choose practicality over comfort, and that tension – between wanting to be true to myself and needing to adapt to external circumstances – leaves me feeling a little disconnected. I want to look good, feel good, and still stay true to who I am, no matter what the weather or the world throws my way.

wonder woman

headwrap makes you twice as tall,

sets off curvaceous cheek, hugs close

womankind’s mind, rippling as silk, contains

she inside who owns all her satisfactions

and keeps them here. even in england, in 

this impractical weather, her cosmic-body gravity 

holds it in shape —

beauty is the tension in the knot. 

– by Josie Charter

Authentic

Home within myself

Belonging

Practical

Content with who I am

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